When you drop a glass or a plate to the ground it makes a crashing sound. When a window shatters, a table breaks or when a picture falls it makes a noise.
But as for your heart, When it breaks, it's completely silent. You would think as it's so important it would make the loudest noise in the whole world or would at have some sort of ceremonious sound like the gong or of a cymbal or the ringing of the bell.
But it's silent and you almost wish there was a noise to distract you from all the pain.
Then we all choose to cry.
The urge to shed tears is one of the troubles emotionalism brings. This urge rests on no rational grounds, however. There is simply no reason for it. Ignorant people, especially women believe that crying is simply a fundamental need like eating, sleeping and drinking.
Why do we choose to cry then ?
We rely on weeping as a relief provider.
Above and over this , the negative and desperate outlook of ignorant people is a factor prompting them to cry. With this outlook, they find a reason to cry. Rather then to solve problems or eliminate the likely causes that leads him or her to grief, they prefer only to weep.
Tho to cry in this society does not mean you are weak willed or helpless. Plus nobody can blame a person for breaking down. But crying has become so common and it has become almost conventional to weep. From graduation ceremonies and weddings to failure and heartbreaks.
People who 'know' (note the emphasis ) about the goodness of crying believe that is a strong weapon to use in particular situations. This is like a so totally insincere way to obtain something they want. Like sympathy or just... things :B
Ok yeah so yeah I cannot deny that I too, cry. Im not trying to say that if you cry you're so hopeless and weak and stuffs like that. But I believe that crying is something that should not actually be 'normal' to us. Especially to women. The male image is associated with "not crying". Contrary to this image, women are encouraged to cry. -_____________-
Like what, women are generally weak so they cry alot. Like that hor ? I do not agree D:< .
But please don't get me wrong that I'm saying it's bad for you to cry even when you pray or read the Holy Quran or repent or think of god etc ! Crying in that situation is totally a different thing. It's good to cry when you remember Allah :')
Ok I'm done blogging err..... Aliens and Monsters ?
Im trying to sound like hairul.
FAIL. HAHAHA!
Oh yesssss btw Im not Hairul. Im blogging here just for fun je :P
Nola.
It's just that this blog died and reincarnated and died and reincarnated so I helped with reincarnation this time.
goodbye ! xx
♥ and so long suckers.
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